Dear Ex, thank you for cheating on me

There will be a time in your life where you will sit and reflect on a certain situation about an ex who did something unforgivable. When you do find yourself reflecting, you find that no matter how bad that situation was-you’re actually okay about it now. 

So yes, he cheated on you. A lot. With your best friend. Yes, at the time you thought you was going to spend the rest of your life with him. Yes, you had to move house and leave all your furniture because it wouldn’t fit at your parents. Yes, the heartache was nearly unbearable.

However, you have had time to get over the betrayal and hurt and have got through it with dignity and a smile. 

So thank you for making me a stronger person today then I was back then. Don’t get me wrong I have always been an independent character, but I have learnt how to live without a man like you. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to live back with my family. You pressured me too young to move out and I secretly regretted not being as close to them. Thank you for the extra time I have spent with my friends who I never used to see. Because you hated me going out without you. Thank you for making me see what a great person I am and how individual I can be. You never saw that in me.

It has been three years without you, and if you didn’t do what you did, then I wouldn’t be in the best relationship ever with a great guy who doesn’t feel the need to cheat on me, or lie to me or betray me. It has been three years since that so-called friend has been in my life, and if she didn’t do what she did then I wouldn’t have these amazing friends that I have now instead of her. 

They say things happen for a reason and karma eventually comes around. Well again I want to say a final thank you. 

Oh and karma is a bitch. 

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